Why I Started TIFFAN.org

After over 20  years working with parents and nannies, with other childcare professionals and keeping informed on research the importance of the early years in a child’s development, I’ve recognized just how important it is for parents and nannies to get the support they need to ensure the children they are caring for receive the best care possible. 

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Finally Leaving Your Children with a Nanny and Trial Periods: The Nanny Manual

The first days are always hard.  I would say that’s one of the best ways to prepare yourself – giving yourself permission for the first day to be hard.  For some it’s harder than others.  No matter how much you trust your nanny that your child will be well cared for, the realization that you are handing over some of your parenting responsibility to another is clear when you walk out the door, closing it behind you.

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Importance of Pre-Screening and References: The Nanny Manual

In The Nanny Manual, I hoped to emphasize just how important trust is in this decision about who to hire.  Trusting what you know, trusting your ‘gut’ emotional response and trusting what others have to say about the caregiver.  Knowing enough about someone and trusting them enough to leave your child in their care doesn’t come from a singular event or singular source.  It comes from several; similar to putting pieces together in a puzzle to then recognize ‘ this is familiar ‘ and this ‘fits together’.

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Why I Wrote "The Nanny Manual"

This is part 1 of an 8-part blog from the perspective of TIFFAN's Founder and "The Nanny Manual" author, Alyce Desrosiers.

There are 3 main reasons why I felt the need to write this book:

  1. I wanted to ensure that kids get the best care possible.  

  2. I wanted parents to get the information and resources they need to make the important decision about who to hire to care for their child.  

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The Nanny Manual

The Nanny Manual will take you on a journey of self-discovery through your heart, soul and mind to help you prepare as you make this most important hiring decision. Whether investigating the viability of choice for working mothers, debunking the myth of perfection that is Mary Poppins, or exploring the minefields of emotions, values and the hiring process, The Nanny Manual prepares you for the day when you leave your child in the care of another. 

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Why Don’t We ‘See’ Nannies? Care by Nanny – The Invisible Professional in the Childcare Industry

Every year, Federal and State government agencies allocate millions of taxpayer dollars to support and improve quality of care provided by preschool teachers and family daycare providers - and rightfully so!  For the last three decades, research has shown that the very early years in a child’s life are the foundations for later success in creating healthy relationships and academic learning.

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